我问过牧师,没有规定
举个例:
1.我亲爱的朋友们,我知道你们很悲伤。但是,请你们记住,如果上帝把zz召唤而去,那是因为上帝需要他为天使们打扮!
2.在为一个小偷举行葬礼时:
“死者是个很勤劳的人,别人睡觉的时候,他忙碌着,当别人醒来的时候,他拥有他们缺少的东西。”
God full of mercy who dwells on high
Grant perfect rest on the wings of Your Divine Presence
In the lofty heights of the holy and pure
who shine as the brightness of the heavens
to the soul of __________(这里填写你要悼念的人的名字)
who has gone to his eternal rest
as all his family and friends
pray for the elevation of his soul.
His resting place shall be in the Garden of Eden.
Therefore, the Master of mercy will care for him
under the protection of His wings for all time
And bind his soul in the bond of everlasting life.
God is his inheritance and he will rest in peace
and let us say Amen.
参加葬礼应注意的礼仪
受邀参加“红白喜事”时把握礼仪分寸都很重要,但两者不同的是,参加婚礼时,一般的小疏忽大多都会被喜庆的气氛冲淡,而葬礼本身的凝重感和沉痛氛围,要求人们言行格外谨慎,如果细节上稍有不注意就可能给亡者家属的身心造成伤害,所以千万不敢有所懈怠。
那么出席葬礼究竟怎样做才最得体?一句话:慎言慎行。以下这几点规矩您可要谨记:参加葬礼或吊唁活动时,男女均应穿黑、蓝等深色服装,男士可内穿白色或暗色衬衣,女士不应涂抹口红,不戴鲜艳的围巾,尽量避免佩戴饰物,如需要可考虑白珍珠或素色饰品,避免佩戴黄金;关怀及安慰对于亡者的亲属很必要,一些过当的举动例如嚎啕大哭应避免,在措辞上也应注意,作为慰问语一般可以说,“这次事情真令我悲痛,请节哀顺便。”“这次事情太突然了,衷心表示哀悼,请保重身体。”丧事时忌讳使用“死”、“惨”等使人联想到不幸的词汇;葬礼会场是肃穆的,吊唁者言辞应收敛,高谈阔论、嬉笑打闹都是对亡者及家属的不敬,说话压低声音,举止轻缓稳重,才能显出您的诚意和风度。
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